Not your “choice”

June 18th, 2008 9:49 am · 91 comments

Ruh-roh.

So you might have seen the study out earlier this week, in which scientists showed a difference in the brain patterns of gays and straights. William Saletan runs it down in Slate:

The sample consisted of 25 straight men, 25 straight women, 20 gay men, and 20 lesbians. In overall symmetry and amygdala activity, the brains of gay men resembled the brains of straight women, whereas the brains of lesbians resembled the brains of straight men. Previous work has connected such differences to fear, anxiety, aggression, and verbal, spatial, and navigational ability. It’s not just a matter of preferring men or women. The broader implication, one expert argues, is that “in gay men, the brain is feminized.”

But the difference, apparently, is not genetics:

So what’s the common factor? If the study’s design rules out learned influences, and if the results in women rule out genetics, that leaves what the authors call “hormonal influences” or non-cognitive differences in the infant environment. According to the Guardian. the same research team has “begun another study to investigate brain symmetry in newborn babies, to see if it can be used to predict their future sexual orientation.” If it can, that will scratch postnatal factors off the list, and the search will narrow to hormones in the womb. Already, the authors point to evidence that homosexuality may be caused by “under-exposure to prenatal androgens” in males and “over-exposure” in females.

Bottom line: Homosexuality may not be the “choice” cultural conservatives want to make it out to be; your sexuality may be determined by what happens to you in the womb.

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Scout
6/18/08
10:01 AM
I just can't resist (sorry all):

All those expectant mothers out there better stay away from The Birdcage, ToWong Fu, Rent, La Boheme, Desert Hearts, etc etc etc, you'll make those babies gay!! rolleyes.gif

cyberscribbler
6/18/08
10:33 AM
So the brain is intelligently designed!
Oh lawdy, I see a perfect storm of controversy heading our way. Take cover!!!
rolleyes.gif
BeingReal
6/18/08
11:17 AM
While my personal beliefs are that homosexuality isn't always a choice, the downfall of this study is its limited size; I'm certain there will be many who will latch onto this to bolster their opposing position. Hopefully some other group will expand this research to prove or disprove this study's results.

Edited for typo.
dragonrider
6/18/08
12:47 PM
QUOTE(Lancaster Online @ Jun 18 2008, 09:50 AM) [snapback]402344[/snapback]


Post your thoughts and comments about this blog post.
Gee I think I said something to this effect in a post awhile ago. That the thought about transsexuality was the result of abnormal hormonal wash in utero. HUH maybe this biochemist does know a thing or two.
Wonder
6/18/08
1:16 PM
This would mean that just as biliruben factors [among others], can be controlled, so can hormonal factors be controlled in uterio. So, we need to step back from political implications and consider what corrective measures will be forthcoming. If this is decided as NOT genetic and NOT learning as initial cause, then there is still the fact that correction measures must be offered [and medical insurance will need to be addressed]. Within a few generations, homosexuality will no longer be an issue if the primary study turns out to be fact.



HOWEVER....I agree with BeingReal that the study was too small. Initial studies, however, usually must be done to add credibility to long term studies...for the purpose of funding and/or institutional support.

dragonrider
6/18/08
1:26 PM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 18 2008, 01:16 PM) [snapback]402477[/snapback]
This would mean that just as biliruben factors [among others], can be controlled, so can hormonal factors be controlled in uterio. So, we need to step back from political implications and consider what corrective measures will be forthcoming. If this is decided as NOT genetic and NOT learning as initial cause, then there is still the fact that correction measures must be offered [and medical insurance will need to be addressed]. Within a few generations, homosexuality will no longer be an issue if the primary study turns out to be fact.



HOWEVER....I agree with BeingReal that the study was too small. Initial studies, however, usually must be done to add credibility to long term studies...for the purpose of funding and/or institutional support.

So you favor a sort of infanticide of homosexual babies so that only heterosexual babies can be born to assuage your discomfort with homosexuality?
littledutchboy
6/18/08
1:28 PM
I’m glade we are one step closer to determining the origins of homosexuality, next step may be a cure.

dragonrider
6/18/08
1:32 PM
QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:28 PM) [snapback]402487[/snapback]
I'm glade we are one step closer to determining the origins of homosexuality, next step may be a cure.

Why cure something that exists in all animals and may confer some benifit to species survival? Becuase it makes you uncomfortable? Lousy reason.
Hope
6/18/08
1:37 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 18 2008, 01:26 PM) [snapback]402485[/snapback]

So you favor a sort of infanticide of homosexual babies so that only heterosexual babies can be born to assuage your discomfort with homosexuality?

It really pizzes me off when someone assumes a giant leap like that! mad.gif
littledutchboy
6/18/08
1:46 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 18 2008, 01:32 PM) [snapback]402496[/snapback]
Why cure something that exists in all animals and may confer some benifit to species survival? Becuase it makes you uncomfortable? Lousy reason.






I read that article, it’s BS, there is no benefits. We have enough of designers and hair stylists, thank you.



Let’s be honest if a pregnant mother to be could take a pill or pills to insure her child would get the correct balance of hormones to insure the child was gender specific, do you think she should would take the pills? Daa of course she would.



dragonrider
6/18/08
1:53 PM
QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 01:37 PM) [snapback]402498[/snapback]

It really pizzes me off when someone assumes a giant leap like that! mad.gif
Well perhaps you could give a better discription of the elimination of gays and lesbians by corrective measures payed for by insurance.

QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:46 PM) [snapback]402504[/snapback]






I read that article, it's BS, there is no benefits. We have enough of designers and hair stylists, thank you.


Even for you that statement is just plain ignorant of facts and reflects you lack of knowledge and sufistications (just plain dumb)

QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:46 PM) [snapback]402504[/snapback]


Let's be honest if a pregnant mother to be could take a pill or pills to insure her child would get the correct balance of hormones to insure the child was gender specific, do you think she should would take the pills? Daa of course she would.
Again if you don't call elimination of all gay and lesbian babies infantacide what do you call it.
Hope
6/18/08
2:03 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 18 2008, 01:53 PM) [snapback]402506[/snapback]

Well perhaps you could give a better discription of the elimination of gays and lesbians by corrective measures payed for by insurance.


A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.
dragonrider
6/18/08
2:07 PM
QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 02:03 PM) [snapback]402514[/snapback]

A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.
Which elimenates gay and lesbian babies, correct? The point is to develope only heterosexual babies, correct? Or am I missing something?



So how many of you love the sinner, hate the sin people will be out shouting scripture at the gay pride festival this saturday? They are always good for a laugh.

dragonrider
6/20/08
11:25 AM
I understand over 40 well organized militant protestors are being shipped in from Philadelphia and outstate for the pride event Saturday. Can I expect to see some local yokels out protesting as well?
mam0412
6/20/08
3:45 PM
QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:46 PM) [snapback]402504[/snapback]

Let's be honest if a pregnant mother to be could take a pill or pills to insure her child would get the correct balance of hormones to insure the child was gender specific, do you think she should would take the pills? Daa of course she would.


Uh, that would be a no. I am not a fan of taking pills of any kind let alone hormone pills. And there are plenty more women like me. I'm not saying the choice shouldn't be offered, but I would decline. At a minimum, long-term studies on that drug would need to be conducted. Could cause far more problems for the individual and mother than just "curing" homosexuality.



QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 02:03 PM) [snapback]402514[/snapback]

A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.


That isn't always simple.

solitary
6/20/08
4:02 PM
Ok, so by flooding the baby in it's earliest stages with testosterone to make a baby who would otherwise be female male is good for the baby how? (This is how I see a technology like this used, mostly in backwards cultures who think male is good, female is bad).

China has how many single lonely men because of this thinking. Not that they need more people, but life without affection and companionship can be pretty harsh.

Don't tinker with nature, and tinkering with humans in this way can only end well. (I can somewhat see a purpose for dairy farms where a bull calf is sold at a much lower price than a cow, because a cow is sent to another dairy where she makes money throughout her life where the bull goes eventually to a slaughterhouse and makes money once.
Goldilocks
6/20/08
4:32 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 20 2008, 10:25 AM) [snapback]403229[/snapback]

I understand over 40 well organized militant protestors are being shipped in from Philadelphia and outstate for the pride event Saturday. Can I expect to see some local yokels out protesting as well?



You mean the gay community might get some of its own medicine.

http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...t/conf_1029.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...f_1029_demo.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_..._1029_signs.htm


IMO protests prove nothing and are futile, no matter who is protesting who.
Scout
6/20/08
5:22 PM
QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 04:32 PM) [snapback]403396[/snapback]
You mean the gay community might get some of its own medicine.
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...t/conf_1029.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...f_1029_demo.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_..._1029_signs.htm
IMO protests prove nothing and are futile, no matter who is protesting who.




Some of it's own medicine? All of the above about only one demonstration.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9102443/

http://www.foxreno.com/news/4354781/detail.html

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/...ndpound5.5.html

http://www.ejpress.org/article/news/uk/12767

http://www.idsnews.com/news/story.aspx?id=32378&comview=1

Wonder
6/20/08
5:27 PM
QUOTE
So you favor a sort of infanticide of homosexual babies so that only heterosexual babies can be born to assuage your discomfort with homosexuality?
First of all...I am not uncomfortable with homosexuality. I have always suspected that the homosexual lifestyle is a choice. The new study fits into my belief...except...that it also adds the demension that the person may not have had as much choice as I imagined they did. I am a truth-seeker. Why would I not welcome new information? If this study is true, then I must increase my tolerance level for those already chosing to live the homosexual lifestyle. You should be happy about that.

What I said had NOTHING to do with infanticide. There are tests now to determine whether a fetus has a developing heart problem. In-utero surgery makes permanent corrections. Would you suggest that we abandon such procedures and allow the fetus [edit: BABY] to be born with a defective heart?

If it is proven that homosexual tendancies are caused by an imbalance of hormones in utero, then I am suggesting that we treat the environment of the uterus to ensure that a male who was genetically to be male is born male...and a female who is genetically programed to be female is born female.

What I see if this study turns out to be true, is that tolerance COULD happen for those who manifested homosexual tendencies before the treatment. After a treatment is created, there should be fewer incidents of gender misidentification at birth. If there is more than one cause of homosexuality, that will then become more evident, as well.
Wonder
6/20/08
5:46 PM
Goldi and I must have been writing at the same time.



WHY would homosexuals protest against those individuals who want to stop living the homosexual lifestyle?



I hope there is no protesting at the event on Sunday. I am not in favor of any type of "pride" event. But, since I helped out at the Witness festival last Saturday and that was geared for believers in the Trinity of God, I suppose I cannot say a lot. Our event was very nice so I hope the homosexual lifestyle choice event is a nice day, too. I certainly would not protest anyone's right to have a family reunion. I would guess it is like a community fireman's festival of days gone by....or the farm fairs in the Fall, where you go and see some of the same people you only see once a year.

supervenusfreak
6/20/08
5:50 PM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 20 2008, 05:27 PM) [snapback]403412[/snapback]
First of all...I am not uncomfortable with homosexuality. I have always suspected that the homosexual lifestyle is a choice. The new study fits into my belief...except...that it also adds the demension that the person may not have had as much choice as I imagined they did. I am a truth-seeker. Why would I not welcome new information? If this study is true, then I must increase my tolerance level for those already chosing to live the homosexual lifestyle. You should be happy about that.

What I said had NOTHING to do with infanticide. There are tests now to determine whether a fetus has a developing heart problem. In-utero surgery makes permanent corrections. Would you suggest that we abandon such procedures and allow the fetus [edit: BABY] to be born with a defective heart?

If it is proven that homosexual tendancies are caused by an imbalance of hormones in utero, then I am suggesting that we treat the environment of the uterus to ensure that a male who was genetically to be male is born male...and a female who is genetically programed to be female is born female.

What I see if this study turns out to be true, is that tolerance COULD happen for those who manifested homosexual tendencies before the treatment. After a treatment is created, there should be fewer incidents of gender misidentification at birth. If there is more than one cause of homosexuality, that will then become more evident, as well.


What really amazes me is that Wonder doesn't consider this post to be offensive. It's all about seeking a cure when none is needed.
Goldilocks
6/20/08
6:02 PM
QUOTE(Scout @ Jun 20 2008, 04:22 PM) [snapback]403408[/snapback]

Some of it's own medicine? All of the above about only one demonstration.



Google “gays protest focus on the family”, and start counting the many different incidents of protests. I didn't feel like listing them all. And that is against only one organization.


As I said, protests prove nothing and I hope that the protestors stay at home. Because if they do show up, the media will be focused on them and not the event with its drag queens and other gay shenigans etc. A few media pictures of outrageous drag queens and some photos of some of the other attire gay people wear at these events will speak volumes and much louder than protests ever will.


supervenusfreak
6/20/08
6:11 PM
QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 06:02 PM) [snapback]403420[/snapback]
A few media pictures of outrageous drag queens and some photos of some of the other attire gay people wear at these events will speak volumes and much louder than protests ever will.


I must remember to don my gay apparel tomorrow!

Oh that's right! Wrong holiday... biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
Makita
6/20/08
7:36 PM
Super



I'm still trying to understand the zealots. Why do they center their lives around the gays. Sometimes when you understand people it helps to make you more tolerant. At this point all I can think of is hatred, bigotry and intolerence of others. I've been told I have a strong sense of right and wrong. They are right.

Goldilocks
6/20/08
8:04 PM
QUOTE(Makita @ Jun 20 2008, 06:36 PM) [snapback]403436[/snapback]

Super



I'm still trying to understand the zealots. Why do they center their lives around the gays. Sometimes when you understand people it helps to make you more tolerant. At this point all I can think of is hatred, bigotry and intolerence of others. I've been told I have a strong sense of right and wrong. They are right.


Differences of opinion is not hatred, bigotry and intolerance.

Sprout
6/20/08
8:48 PM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 18 2008, 01:16 PM) [snapback]402477[/snapback]
This would mean that just as biliruben factors [among others], can be controlled, so can hormonal factors be controlled in uterio. So, we need to step back from political implications and consider what corrective measures will be forthcoming. If this is decided as NOT genetic and NOT learning as initial cause, then there is still the fact that correction measures must be offered [and medical insurance will need to be addressed]. Within a few generations, homosexuality will no longer be an issue if the primary study turns out to be fact.



HOWEVER....I agree with BeingReal that the study was too small. Initial studies, however, usually must be done to add credibility to long term studies...for the purpose of funding and/or institutional support.





Or maybe we'll just make everybody gay and get rid of those pesky heterosexuals.

Sounds just as reasonable. We can take "corrective measures" to make sure the babies turn out homosexual like they should be instead of "malfunctioned" like those hetersexuals are.

Same words, different side of the coin.



QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:28 PM) [snapback]402487[/snapback]
I'm glade we are one step closer to determining the origins of homosexuality, next step may be a cure.







How "Hitleresque" of you



QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 18 2008, 01:32 PM) [snapback]402496[/snapback]
Why cure something that exists in all animals and may confer some benifit to species survival? Becuase it makes you uncomfortable? Lousy reason.




Better yet, why cure something that isn't a disease or disorder?? It would be like "curing" green eyes.



QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 02:03 PM) [snapback]402514[/snapback]

A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.




The corrective measure could be to ensure they turn out gay in order to stop the population explosion. The government isn't beyond doing something like that.

So, if we say we can take corrective measures that will prevent heterosexuality, you wouldn't be offended by that?



QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 20 2008, 11:25 AM) [snapback]403229[/snapback]
I understand over 40 well organized militant protestors are being shipped in from Philadelphia and outstate for the pride event Saturday. Can I expect to see some local yokels out protesting as well?




They have to ship them in because the local bigots only have the courage to spout off from behind a computer screen. They don't have the guts to do it where people can see them and realize them for what they are.



QUOTE(mam0412 @ Jun 20 2008, 03:45 PM) [snapback]403376[/snapback]


Uh, that would be a no. I am not a fan of taking pills of any kind let alone hormone pills. And there are plenty more women like me. I'm not saying the choice shouldn't be offered, but I would decline. At a minimum, long-term studies on that drug would need to be conducted. Could cause far more problems for the individual and mother than just "curing" homosexuality.


That isn't always simple.





Good for you Mam!

Besides, what if the "cure" ends up causing something else?

Those of you who deeply believe that God is in control of everything in our lives should be comfortable with gays since they are just as much part of his plan as anyone else. You want to play God now because you think you know better than he does?

Ask the expectant mother: "Do you want a pill that will ensure your child won't be gay? The pill will cause them to be impotent and perhaps shorten their lifespan by 20 to 30 years, but they will be absolutely heterosexual". Do you think they mother will agree?





QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 04:32 PM) [snapback]403396[/snapback]



You mean the gay community might get some of its own medicine.

http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...t/conf_1029.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_...f_1029_demo.htm
http://article8.org/docs/news_events/love_..._1029_signs.htm


IMO protests prove nothing and are futile, no matter who is protesting who.




Some of it's own medicine?????????

WTF are you talking about woman?!!

Since when you do you see hundreds of gays gathering at events to scream at people they're going to burn in hell for no reason other than the idiots screaming the stuff being so homophobic that it overpowers their lives???

Their own medicine?????



What the event WOULD be good for is to give YOU a chance to come out after all these years. That's one of the three things that can explain why you act the way you do. Number 2 is that your husband has already come out and you're angry about it and number 3 is you are not intelligent enough to realize that there is no reason to be homophobic. Which one is it?

Oh yeah, just in case it's 3, here's a recap:

1. you are gay and scared

2. your husband is gay and you're mad

3. you are below 90 on the IQ scale and don't know any better.

Which is it?

There really aren't any other options when you get right down to it. People will say things, claim others, but these are the three realities that exist for homophobia regardless of what those who are homophobic might say (see number 3).



QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 20 2008, 05:27 PM) [snapback]403412[/snapback]
First of all...I am not uncomfortable with homosexuality. I have always suspected that the homosexual lifestyle is a choice. The new study fits into my belief...except...that it also adds the demension that the person may not have had as much choice as I imagined they did. I am a truth-seeker. Why would I not welcome new information? If this study is true, then I must increase my tolerance level for those already chosing to live the homosexual lifestyle. You should be happy about that.



Yes, you are.

No, it doesn't.

No, you aren't.

No, you won't because hatred is all you know.



QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 20 2008, 05:27 PM) [snapback]403412[/snapback]

What I said had NOTHING to do with infanticide.


yes, that's exactly what it is. Changing the words doesn't change the meaning.


As for the rest of your post, it's not worth commenting on other than to say "Hiel Hitler!" to his most ardent follower.

supervenusfreak
6/20/08
8:51 PM
QUOTE(Sprout @ Jun 20 2008, 08:44 PM) [snapback]403446[/snapback]

Those of you who deeply believe that God is in control of everything in our lives should be comfortable with gays since they are just as much part of his plan as anyone else. You want to play God now because you think you know better than he does?


Words to live by. Unfortunately the ones who should heed them will ignore them.


QUOTE(Makita @ Jun 20 2008, 07:36 PM) [snapback]403436[/snapback]
Super



I'm still trying to understand the zealots. Why do they center their lives around the gays. Sometimes when you understand people it helps to make you more tolerant. At this point all I can think of is hatred, bigotry and intolerence of others. I've been told I have a strong sense of right and wrong. They are right.



I can understand that. I have given up on trying to understand the zealots, or trying to reason with them. It's a big waste of time and energy.
Sprout
6/20/08
9:01 PM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 20 2008, 05:50 PM) [snapback]403417[/snapback]


What really amazes me is that Wonder doesn't consider this post to be offensive. It's all about seeking a cure when none is needed.




Exactly. It's like seeking a cure to prevent babies from being born red-headed or with green eyes or blue eyes or {gasp} to prevent them from being born black or hispanic or Asian or white. They are wanting to play God because deep down, they actually think they know better than He does. They absolutely disgust me with their hatred and arrogance. If it weren't for the fact that it's only an indication of their low intelligence level, I would have no pity for them at all.



QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 06:02 PM) [snapback]403420[/snapback]


Google "gays protest focus on the family", and start counting the many different incidents of protests. I didn't feel like listing them all. And that is against only one organization.


As I said, protests prove nothing and I hope that the protestors stay at home. Because if they do show up, the media will be focused on them and not the event with its drag queens and other gay shenigans etc. A few media pictures of outrageous drag queens and some photos of some of the other attire gay people wear at these events will speak volumes and much louder than protests ever will.






Absolutely clueless....so sad that anyone is honestly this pathetically hateful.



QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 20 2008, 06:11 PM) [snapback]403421[/snapback]


I must remember to don my gay apparel tomorrow!

Oh that's right! Wrong holiday... biggrin.gif biggrin.gif




I'm wearing cargo shorts and a T-shirt, too hot for X-mas sweaters!!! LOL



I wonder if the shorts and T-shirt would be "too gay" and bother people like gouldi?



QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 08:04 PM) [snapback]403439[/snapback]


Differences of opinion is not hatred, bigotry and intolerance.





no, but homophobia like you show on a daily basis definitely is.

Homophobia is NOT a "difference of opinion". It's not our opinion, it's who we are, it's our persona, it's who God made us to be. There's no "opinion" involved so it IS HATRED, BIGOTRY AND INTOLERANCE. Why are you unable to comprehend that???

oh, I forgot, number 3. nevermind, that's why.

Daisy Lee Myers
6/20/08
10:06 PM
hmm, if you only had a "TGIF" in the F&M hood!

adios

daisy

sorry, wrong thread!
dragonrider
6/20/08
10:32 PM
Homosexual lifestyle choice event? Why can't you refer to it by its proper name. Would you like it I called the event last week as the Churchies lifestyle choice event.



If God chose for a person to person to be washed with testosterone or estrogen to create a homosexual baby why would you go against Gods will and change the baby.

2fat2ride
6/21/08
2:33 AM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 20 2008, 05:50 PM) [snapback]403417[/snapback]


What really amazes me is that Wonder doesn't consider this post to be offensive. It's all about seeking a cure when none is needed.




You hit the nail on the head. I found the post equally offensive, and I am not gay.



QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 06:02 PM) [snapback]403420[/snapback]


Google "gays protest focus on the family", and start counting the many different incidents of protests. I didn't feel like listing them all. And that is against only one organization.

As I said, protests prove nothing and I hope that the protestors stay at home. Because if they do show up, the media will be focused on them and not the event with its drag queens and other gay shenigans etc. A few media pictures of outrageous drag queens and some photos of some of the other attire gay people wear at these events will speak volumes and much louder than protests ever will.


Gay shenanigans? I would love to see that! Please more drag queens! I love them! Why wouldn't I? People expressing their own individuality? Why that seems to be the very nature of human life. Express yourselves, not your dogma. I would love to see more drag queens, everyday, at the grocery store, at the post office, anywhere. And, in a more sensible world, I would go up to them and say, "How do you do you do, my fine queer friend. Love ya'. Do you know which aisle I can find applebuter?" And they would either point the correct direction to me, or they would not, depending on how familiar they are with applebutter or the layout of modern grocery stores. Just like everybody else would.





QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 18 2008, 01:16 PM) [snapback]402477[/snapback]
So, we need to step back from political implications and consider what corrective measures will be forthcoming.




Bigot.



QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:28 PM) [snapback]402487[/snapback]
I'm glade we are one step closer to determining the origins of homosexuality, next step may be a cure.


Obvious bigot.



QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 01:37 PM) [snapback]402498[/snapback]

It really pizzes me off when someone assumes a giant leap like that! mad.gif


Bigot who refuses to admit it. Or one who fails to identify those traits in themselves.



QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:46 PM) [snapback]402504[/snapback]

I read that article, it's BS, there is no benefits. We have enough of designers and hair stylists, thank you.

Let's be honest if a pregnant mother to be could take a pill or pills to insure her child would get the correct balance of hormones to insure the child was gender specific, do you think she should would take the pills? Daa of course she would.


I am a hetero male and if there were a pill to ensure the sexual orientation of my child I would not take it.



QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 02:03 PM) [snapback]402514[/snapback]

A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.


Bigot.



QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 20 2008, 08:04 PM) [snapback]403439[/snapback]


Differences of opinion is not hatred, bigotry and intolerance.





You may want to check out the definitions of those words. Carefully, while looking in a mirror.

I do not use the word bigot as an insult, only as the word was designed to be used and as its definition implies.





Wonder
6/21/08
2:50 AM
QUOTE
What really amazes me is that Wonder doesn't consider this post to be offensive. It's all about seeking a cure when none is needed.
Going against my concern about writing after midnight: I was not talking about seeking a cure. This is prevention of the development of a problem.

Why would you wish your children to be born other than with their true genetic endowment???

If it is insulting to consider changing the in-utero environment if the Mother has been known to provide a hormonal imbalance.....

then:

- any child born with a "hairlip" should not have the needed corrections. They can eat in the best way they can....they were born that way so that is that.

-we should disregard medications that cause malformations in the developing fetus, and just concentrate on keeping the mother comfortable. If the child is born with stumps instead of hands, they were meant to be that way.

-we should disregard ongoing research into a link between high tension lines and childhood onset of leukemia [being studied in the UK].

-pregnant Mothers need not worry about taking illegal substances during pregnancies....even though their babies will be born addicted. Being born addicted is normal because they were born that way.
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We are not talking about YOU....we are talking about those yet unborn children.

To those who say...."Do you think we chose to be this way?": Okay. Now there may be a choice for children NOT to be born that way. And you still want them to be born with the tendancy toward homosexuality. [yes, I will NOT use the terms "gay" or "lesbian" because those terms have no scientific or medical connection.]

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Homosexual lifestyle choice event? Why can't you refer to it by its proper name. Would you like it I called the event last week as the Churchies lifestyle choice event.
Why would I call it a "churchies lifestyle event"? What is a "churchie"? It was a Christian event. Most are churchgoers...so it could be called an event for those who chose Christianity and attend churches. I would not care. I do not get insulted when things are called what they are. What is it's proper name? "Gay Pride"??? There is NO "gay" or "lesbian" or "bi" or "transexual". They are ALL people who chose homosexuality and / or the "homosexual lifestyle". Scientific evidence emerges [or likely evidence] and evidence that the scientific community does NOT believe homosexuality is genetic and yet you continue to bash those of us who do not go along with the homosexual agenda or lifestyle.

Go ahead and enjoy your day. Whatever you want to call it makes no difference to me. I will not be there and I certainly do not wish any protesters to be there. I said that before but homosexual life style livers and supporters only read and reply to what will further their agenda.

dragonrider
6/21/08
5:27 AM
What is a churchie, I have no friggin idea any more than I know what a homosexual choice lifestyle event is? color me clueless Here it is 5:30 AM and I aint been to sleep yet.



Big difference between a person with cleft lip and pallet(its not called a hair lip moron) which my oldest adopted son had and homosexuality doncha think. Oh wait you don't do you, think that is.

lanzate
6/21/08
7:39 AM
I have been around enough gays to know that being gay is not a choice, it is who they are. I try not to think too much of how they got that way. I do tend to think it is not genetic since evolution would have eliminated this kind of gene thousands of years ago, but there have been cases where seemingly genetic “defects” are not eliminated from the gene pool because they give the person a particular advantage. Color blindness has been shown to help a person stay alive longer on the battlefield and the gene for sickle cell anemia actually helps prevent malaria. Both of these are easily tracked through a family pedigree. I have never seen homosexuality tracked in a pedigree so if it is genetic it would have to be a recurring mutation.

It was in the news awhile ago about 2 deaf parents desiring a deaf child because they believed the deaf “lifestyle” was better for their family. They went through the necessary process and they did have a deaf child. How would I know which is better if I have never been deaf? Perhaps being blind is better, or maybe only having 1 foot? The PC way would be to say nothing is “better” it is just different.

Any volunteers?
supervenusfreak
6/21/08
8:36 AM
Good morning everyone! It certainly looks like we will have a beautiful sunny day for the Lancaster Pride event. I hope that everyone attending has a great time and enjoys and remembers all of the hard work that the steering committee, volunteers, and entertainers have done. I'll be there with family and friends supporting the local community. Big hugs to all...
dragonrider
6/21/08
9:52 AM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 21 2008, 08:36 AM) [snapback]403538[/snapback]
Good morning everyone! It certainly looks like we will have a beautiful sunny day for the Lancaster Pride event. I hope that everyone attending has a great time and enjoys and remembers all of the hard work that the steering committee, volunteers, and entertainers have done. I'll be there with family and friends supporting the local community. Big hugs to all...
I'll be there as one of the silent witness's see ya there.
supervenusfreak
6/21/08
9:57 AM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 21 2008, 09:52 AM) [snapback]403551[/snapback]
I'll be there as one of the silent witness's see ya there.


I hope that you got enough sleep! It should be a very good day.
dragonrider
6/21/08
10:02 AM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 21 2008, 09:57 AM) [snapback]403552[/snapback]


I hope that you got enough sleep! It should be a very good day.
is an hour and a half enough sleep. laugh.gif
supervenusfreak
6/21/08
10:05 AM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 21 2008, 10:02 AM) [snapback]403554[/snapback]
is an hour and a half enough sleep. laugh.gif



LOL. I certainly hope so. I also hope that you won't have much to do too.
Wonder
6/21/08
10:07 AM
QUOTE
Big difference between a person with cleft lip and pallet(its not called a hair lip moron) which my oldest adopted son had and homosexuality doncha think. Oh wait you don't do you, think that is.
As I said, I do not call names. I am no moron and I know it is a cleft lip and palate as I had a partial one of the same....only internal,covered, and with no external manifestations. It was corrected, and I am glad.

It is not at all different. If this new scientific study pans out...it could be that homosexuality will be a thing of history in a few generations. How is it different than a baby addicted at birth, for example?

Have a great time at your pride celebration.
dragonrider
6/21/08
10:19 AM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 21 2008, 10:07 AM) [snapback]403557[/snapback]
As I said, I do not call names. I am no moron and I know it is a cleft lip and palate as I had a partial one of the same....only internal,covered, and with no external manifestations. It was corrected, and I am glad.

It is not at all different. If this new scientific study pans out...it could be that homosexuality will be a thing of history in a few generations. How is it different than a baby addicted at birth, for example?

Have a great time at your pride celebration.
Obviously telling you will not change your mind so why bother, But I would ask would you have changed Michaelangelo or Leonardo Da Vinci homosexuality if it also meant the world would lose their art.Never mind you probably would or wouldn't understand the question.
supervenusfreak
6/21/08
10:32 AM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 21 2008, 10:07 AM) [snapback]403557[/snapback]
As I said, I do not call names. I am no moron and I know it is a cleft lip and palate as I had a partial one of the same....only internal,covered, and with no external manifestations. It was corrected, and I am glad.

It is not at all different. If this new scientific study pans out...it could be that homosexuality will be a thing of history in a few generations. How is it different than a baby addicted at birth, for example?

Have a great time at your pride celebration.


Being gay is not a mental condition, a disease, a disability, or a choice. It is a sexuality that is genetically predisposed in a minority of homo sapiens and in various other species. To state or insinuate that it is something that needs to be corrected is incredulous and insulting to those of us who bear that trait.

Thank you. We will. It looks like the day will be sunny and warm, a perfect time to enjoy the park, and the company of others in our community.
ScoutsWife
6/21/08
10:43 AM
QUOTE(Wonder @ Jun 21 2008, 10:07 AM) [snapback]403557[/snapback]
As I said, I do not call names. I am no moron and I know it is a cleft lip and palate as I had a partial one of the same....only internal,covered, and with no external manifestations. It was corrected, and I am glad.

It is not at all different. If this new scientific study pans out...it could be that homosexuality will be a thing of history in a few generations. How is it different than a baby addicted at birth, for example?

Have a great time at your pride celebration.




You are not being truthful in this post. You have called names on many occaisions and you have also been one of the most hateful posters I have encountered.

That being said, homosexuality will not be a thing of history in a few generations because this is not a "cure", it is a "possible cause" which will require a great deal more research and will lead, in the end, to only one of the factors which causes the natural occurance of homosexuality in people as well as all other members of the animal kingdom. There are many factors that lead to homosexuality, this is one of them, there are also others including genetic, other hormonal levels that have not been looked at as well as God's own plan for each of us.

What WILL happen in a few generations is that homophobia will be a thing of history. As more and more young people learn that gays and lesbians are no different than they are other than what gender they are attracted to, they understand more and more that gays and lesbians are no more of a threat than someone of the opposite sex would be and that if they aren't interested, all they have to do is say "no thanks" if someone expresses an interest just as they would do with a member of the opposite sex.

I don't understand why your soul is eaten up with hatred and I'm not going to bother to try to understand it because you just get more and more hateful when people try to help you come to terms with your own demons, as does your "partner in crime" on here.

The difference is, homosexuality is not a "condition", it is not a "disease", it is not a "malformation" it is not something that is life threatening (in itself, although homophobia threatens the lives of gays and lesbians on a daily basis).

People like you and your hate filled, close minded attitudes will eventually pass on and the next generation will be who decides the social climate of tomorrow, not the elderly of today. Our children are very much advanced over the archaic mindsets of the older generation and they will succeed in wiping out most of the hatred the fuels such groups as those protesting today at the park, the Fred Phelps group, the radical right hatemongers who claim christianity but show the absolute opposite, the bigotry and indecency of those who claim to be open and caring but are nothing but hatefilled and prejudiced.

The children I teach each day, the children I will continue to teach in years to come and the children who are taught by other teachers who are not full of hatred and help students to learn that with education comes awareness of the world around them will continue to do so and these children will be the leaders of tomorrow. They will take with them the memory of the teacher who worked so hard to help them understand their subject, the teacher who treated them with respect, the teacher who just happened to be gay and they will benefit from knowling that gays and lesbians are in all walks of life and are just as normal as they are.

There is an overabundance of gays in the field of education and of social work for a reason, gays actually CARE about the kids and what them to succeed instead of just being "part of the team", the kids learn that they matter, that people really do care and that the world can a better place. Gays and Lesbians, for the most part, aren't the ones out there molesting children. The molstors are members of organized relgion, members of those who profess the love of God, yet don't practice it in their own lives. The days of the hypocrits are coming to an end, and not a moment too sonn.

The children are the future, you are the past. The future is bright and promising for all people to better understand one another without the hatred from people of your chronological excess being around to warp their minds in ways they should never be warped.

Makita
6/21/08
10:49 AM
Sprout? Why the change. New beginning today.
ScoutsWife
6/21/08
11:02 AM
QUOTE(Makita @ Jun 21 2008, 10:49 AM) [snapback]403570[/snapback]
Sprout? Why the change. New beginning today.




A couple of reasons. The biggest reason is that I forgot my login and password LOL

The lupus works on my short term memory and since I didn't write it down, or at least forgot where it's written down, it's as good as gone.

I believe I also had a little spoofer when they knew I wasn't going to be on, maybe a couple of them, so I decided to switch names since I have no idea how to log on to SproutingUp now LOL. I'm writing this one down!

hehehe, missed me didn't ya? biggrin.gif

Heading out to the park now. I was there earlier to help setup, but needed to come home for some stuff. and decided to check on here.

Hope to see you there, I'll be at the church table mostly and then holding the rainbow umbrellas a while (Silent Witnesses) to shield against the protestors if they show up.





twinmom
6/21/08
11:05 AM
QUOTE(ScoutsWife @ Jun 21 2008, 11:02 AM) [snapback]403575[/snapback]

A couple of reasons. The biggest reason is that I forgot my login and password LOL




Did you contact the mods?

Makita
6/21/08
11:08 AM
Sorry, won't be there. This is your day to shine. Enjoy.
Makita
6/21/08
11:19 AM
Just noticed. Scoutswife posts have been eliminated. Can anyone explain why. She clearly stated she forgot her sign on.
twinmom
6/21/08
11:27 AM
QUOTE(Makita @ Jun 21 2008, 11:19 AM) [snapback]403581[/snapback]
Just noticed. Scoutswife posts have been eliminated. Can anyone explain why. She clearly stated she forgot her sign on.




two active accounts are against policy

Makita
6/21/08
11:43 AM
Thanks Twin didn't know. Sprout I apologize for causing a problem. Enjoy your event.
twinmom
6/21/08
12:35 PM
QUOTE(Makita @ Jun 21 2008, 11:43 AM) [snapback]403586[/snapback]
Thanks Twin didn't know. Sprout I apologize for causing a problem. Enjoy your event.




you didn't cause any problem

tugrad
6/21/08
7:38 PM
QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 18 2008, 01:28 PM) [snapback]402487[/snapback]
I'm glade we are one step closer to determining the origins of homosexuality, next step may be a cure.



Would be nice if someone were working a cure for ignorance and hate.



QUOTE(Hope @ Jun 18 2008, 02:03 PM) [snapback]402514[/snapback]

A corrective measure could be as simple as medication.


There is nothing to be "corrected". Gays and lesbians are people not mistakes or problems to be corrected.

Rural Conservative
6/21/08
9:18 PM
QUOTE(tugrad @ Jun 21 2008, 07:38 PM) [snapback]403680[/snapback]


Would be nice if someone were working a cure for ignorance and hate.

Yes, it would be nice, wouldn't it. It would also be nice if people would stop claiming that someone is ignorant or hateful simply because they hold an opposing viewpoint. that tactic is ignorant in the extreme.
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There is nothing to be "corrected". Gays and lesbians are people not mistakes or problems to be corrected.



Do you feel the same about Trisomy 21 (Down's syndrome)? How about Cerebral Palsy? How about dwarfism? How about any other number of birth abnormalities? Homosexuality (despite the efforts of those within the homosexual community to prove otherwise), is abnormal. It doesn't make the homosexual any less human or any less loved of God, but it is not normal, anymore than any of the above birth "defects" are normal (and I put that word in quotes as I see persons with the aforementioned issues as gifts to be loved and cared for, and helped in any way possible due to their disadvantages). If indeed homosexuality is either genetic or affected by uterin fluids, then it is a birth abnormality just like the others listed.

Unfortunately, the lives of babies who are diagnosed in utero with any of the aforementioned "defects" are immediately put into danger. Many such children are killed prior to ever seeing the light of day. Many die after being removed from their mother's womb after long moments of either being left alone, or held until they expire. Since you now possibly have something in common with these children, how do you view terminating their lives?

Or, if you believe that their lives should be terminated, will you simply ignore the logical connection and continue in your own self imposed ignorance and denial?

Since I know that I am likely to get flamed for my views, I will state up front that I will NOT RESPOND to any flames, so you may as well not bother (but I know some are likely to anyway). If anyone is up for some logical discussion; however, I am game.
segjt
6/21/08
9:27 PM
QUOTE(tugrad @ Jun 21 2008, 07:38 PM) [snapback]403680[/snapback]


Would be nice if someone were working a cure for ignorance and hate.





There is nothing to be "corrected". Gays and lesbians are people not mistakes or problems to be corrected.



Speaking of mistakes...wasn't it Obama who said he was for abortion because he didn't want his children saddled with "a mistake"??? Are unborn children people or mistakes??...Just askin..
littledutchboy
6/21/08
9:35 PM
QUOTE(segjt @ Jun 21 2008, 09:27 PM) [snapback]403705[/snapback]


Speaking of mistakes...wasn't it Obama who said he was for abortion because he didn't want his children saddled with "a mistake"??? Are unborn children people or mistakes??...Just askin..




Criticizing Oboom on a gay topic …..you are asking for it. smile.gif

segjt
6/21/08
9:38 PM
QUOTE(littledutchboy @ Jun 21 2008, 09:35 PM) [snapback]403711[/snapback]




Criticizing Oboom on a gay topic …..you are asking for it. smile.gif





LOL...I ask for it everytime I sign on in this god forsaken forum...

Goldilocks
6/21/08
10:01 PM
QUOTE(Rural Conservative @ Jun 21 2008, 08:18 PM) [snapback]403703[/snapback]

Yes, it would be nice, wouldn't it. It would also be nice if people would stop claiming that someone is ignorant or hateful simply because they hold an opposing viewpoint. that tactic is ignorant in the extreme.


Just be thankful you still have the freedom to voice a viewpoint. The day may come if you have an opposing view, you might be hauled to court.

Ran across this article....not sure who wrote it, but it was an interview with Bruce Hausknech. these are some excerpts.

QUOTE
Recently two lesbians approached a photographer in Albuquerque, N.M., and asked her to photograph their "commitment ceremony." The photographer and her husband are Christians, so she couldn't take the job.

That should have been the end of it. But one of the lesbians complained to New Mexico's Human Rights Commission, not just protesting this case but also demanding that the photographer be ordered to photograph such ceremonies in the future. A panel for that commission hauled her up for a one-day trial. And in April, it said she was in the wrong, and adding insult to injury, told her to pay more than $6,600 to cover the lesbian's legal expenses.

How could the commission justify such a ruling? Because - New Mexico has a "human rights" law that bans discrimination on the basis of "sexual orientation."

The photographer is challenging the ruling with help from the Alliance Defense Fund, so it may yet be overturned. But this case shows the mischief these laws can work: When we have them, then people can be harassed and have their very livelihood threatened by the state unless they're willing to violate their conscience.

• The Arlington County (Va.) Human Rights Commission ordered the owner of a video company to duplicate two videotapes promoting the homosexual political agenda or pay for duplication elsewhere. The commission reversed its ruling a short time later one day before the owner filed suit against members for overreaching their authority. What may have made the difference: The state nondiscrimination law does not include sexual orientation.

• The New Jersey Division of Civil Rights revoked the tax-exempt status of a church that refused to rent a beachfront gazebo on church property for a same-sex civil union ceremony.

• A federal court ruled that an Arizona private-adoption agency Web site could not picture only married, opposite-sex couples, despite the adoption agency's belief and policy that children are better off being placed with a mom and a dad. The adoption agency agreed not to do business in California.

In Colorado, the Legislature has approved a bill that would force religious groups to provide services to homosexuals, bisexuals, cross-dressers and the transgendered, even when doing so promotes a message that violates religious convictions.

Also in Colorado, under the bill’s language covering "transgender status," all public restrooms and locker rooms would be open to anyone who self-identifies as a member of that gender. A cross-dressing man could sue for access to a woman's restroom on the grounds that he's really "expressing" his gender identity as a woman.




The last one is interesting. When mommy takes little Susie to the public restroom, she might meet some cross dressed drag dude in the ladies restroom!!



Rural Conservative
6/21/08
10:16 PM
QUOTE(Goldilocks @ Jun 21 2008, 10:01 PM) [snapback]403724[/snapback]


Just be thankful you still have the freedom to voice a viewpoint. The day may come if you have an opposing view, you might be hauled to court.


Unfortunately, you are correct. I find it interesting that liberals/progressives who want to defend everyone else's "rights" (ACLU for instance), are unwilling to defend the rights of those who disagree with them. The ACLU is one of the most hypocritical, backwards institutions in existence today. It's truly unfortunate.
AngelFace
6/21/08
11:41 PM
QUOTE(Rural Conservative @ Jun 21 2008, 09:18 PM) [snapback]403703[/snapback]

Yes, it would be nice, wouldn't it. It would also be nice if people would stop claiming that someone is ignorant or hateful simply because they hold an opposing viewpoint. that tactic is ignorant in the extreme.
Do you feel the same about Trisomy 21 (Down's syndrome)? How about Cerebral Palsy? How about dwarfism? How about any other number of birth abnormalities? Homosexuality (despite the efforts of those within the homosexual community to prove otherwise), is abnormal. It doesn't make the homosexual any less human or any less loved of God, but it is not normal, anymore than any of the above birth "defects" are normal (and I put that word in quotes as I see persons with the aforementioned issues as gifts to be loved and cared for, and helped in any way possible due to their disadvantages). If indeed homosexuality is either genetic or affected by uterin fluids, then it is a birth abnormality just like the others listed.

Unfortunately, the lives of babies who are diagnosed in utero with any of the aforementioned "defects" are immediately put into danger. Many such children are killed prior to ever seeing the light of day. Many die after being removed from their mother's womb after long moments of either being left alone, or held until they expire. Since you now possibly have something in common with these children, how do you view terminating their lives?

Or, if you believe that their lives should be terminated, will you simply ignore the logical connection and continue in your own self imposed ignorance and denial?

Since I know that I am likely to get flamed for my views, I will state up front that I will NOT RESPOND to any flames, so you may as well not bother (but I know some are likely to anyway). If anyone is up for some logical discussion; however, I am game.


I think a good parallel would also be the deaf community. Galludet U. has taken a similar stance -- basically, who is to say that deafness is not normal and the gold standard, and hearing is an affliction to be dispensed with. The militant deaf community routinely shuns and ostracizes anyone who has a cochlear implant done on themselves or on their child. That seems to be the position of several of the posters on this thread -- homosexuality is the norm and heteros need to be cured.

GOD BLESS AMERICA, where we have the right to believe that down is up and day is night, and then fight to the death to prove ourselves correct and everyone else a fool.
dragonrider
6/22/08
8:10 AM
QUOTE(AngelFace @ Jun 21 2008, 11:41 PM) [snapback]403742[/snapback]


I think a good parallel would also be the deaf community. Galludet U. has taken a similar stance -- basically, who is to say that deafness is not normal and the gold standard, and hearing is an affliction to be dispensed with. The militant deaf community routinely shuns and ostracizes anyone who has a cochlear implant done on themselves or on their child. That seems to be the position of several of the posters on this thread -- homosexuality is the norm and heteros need to be cured.

GOD BLESS AMERICA, where we have the right to believe that down is up and day is night, and then fight to the death to prove ourselves correct and everyone else a fool.
Sheesh what a distortion, can't remember any gay person seeking to change a heterosexuals lifestyle choice but I hear almost daily about breeder churchies lifestyle choicers wanting to change gay people into straight bible thumping churchies.
Rural Conservative
6/22/08
8:26 AM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 22 2008, 08:10 AM) [snapback]403839[/snapback]
Sheesh what a distortion, can't remember any gay person seeking to change a heterosexuals lifestyle choice but I hear almost daily about breeder churchies lifestyle choicers wanting to change gay people into straight bible thumping churchies.




Oh really?

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28970



http://thinkpinkradio.com/2008/02/27/homos...-business-card/



Those are not "conservative" sources either.


Distortion, my left thumb!


supervenusfreak
6/22/08
8:37 AM
QUOTE(Rural Conservative @ Jun 22 2008, 08:26 AM) [snapback]403843[/snapback]




Oh really?

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28970



http://thinkpinkradio.com/2008/02/27/homos...-business-card/



Those are not "conservative" sources either.


Distortion, my left thumb!




ROFL. Two comedy websites. Pretty funny too! biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
dragonrider
6/22/08
12:42 PM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 22 2008, 08:37 AM) [snapback]403846[/snapback]


ROFL. Two comedy websites. Pretty funny too! biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
My thought as well, having lived in Wisconsin I was going to point out that the Onion is a strictly tongue in cheek satire of the news and not real news the other business card was obviously a satire on some breeders claims that gays recruit.
supervenusfreak
6/22/08
2:14 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 22 2008, 12:42 PM) [snapback]403910[/snapback]
My thought as well, having lived in Wisconsin I was going to point out that the Onion is a strictly tongue in cheek satire of the news and not real news the other business card was obviously a satire on some breeders claims that gays recruit.


Exactly! That's what happens when you try to use google to prove a point. biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
Rural Conservative
6/22/08
2:33 PM
QUOTE(supervenusfreak @ Jun 22 2008, 08:37 AM) [snapback]403846[/snapback]


ROFL. Two comedy websites. Pretty funny too! biggrin.gif biggrin.gif




I'll apologise, I was very tired this am when I was responding and could not really interpret what I was reading. Honestly, if I had been truly alert, I would have ignored the question altogether since I now see that it was an obvious deflection.



You got me on those two links, however, there are true stories out there of deliberate attempts to proseletize by the homosexual lobby. Here's one that is a legitamate story.



http://www.aim.org/media-monitor/homosexua...ent-in-schools/



There are more like it that I found on my blackberry this morning, but I haven't figured out how to link on that thing, but the information is out there and free for any who wish to find it.



To claim that homosexuals never try to recruit others to become homosexuals is like claiming that there are never clouds in the sky.



Everyone proseletizes others to join them in their point of view. Christians, muslims, buddists, homosexuals, Mac junkies, PC geeks, Coke drinkers, Pepsi drinkers (though why anyone would want to drink Pepsi, I have no idea). It just varies in intensity and overtness.



Getting back to my original question though, are you going to answer it, or are you going to continue to deflect?



QUOTE


Unfortunately, the lives of babies who are diagnosed in utero with any of the aforementioned "defects" are immediately put into danger. Many such children are killed prior to ever seeing the light of day. Many die after being removed from their mother's womb after long moments of either being left alone, or held until they expire. Since you now possibly have something in common with these children, how do you view terminating their lives?

Or, if you believe that their lives should be terminated, will you simply ignore the logical connection and continue in your own self imposed ignorance and denial?



SWWeiss
6/22/08
2:34 PM
QUOTE(Scout @ Jun 18 2008, 10:01 AM) [snapback]402355[/snapback]
I just can't resist (sorry all):

All those expectant mothers out there better stay away from The Birdcage, ToWong Fu, Rent, La Boheme, Desert Hearts, etc etc etc, you'll make those babies gay!! rolleyes.gif



The Birdcage! One of my all-time favorites! That movie is freaking hilarious!

I love the leap frog part at dinner! LMAO!

Straightasanarrow, PA
dragonrider
6/22/08
4:04 PM
QUOTE(Rural Conservative @ Jun 22 2008, 02:33 PM) [snapback]403917[/snapback]




I'll apologise, I was very tired this am when I was responding and could not really interpret what I was reading. Honestly, if I had been truly alert, I would have ignored the question altogether since I now see that it was an obvious deflection.



You got me on those two links, however, there are true stories out there of deliberate attempts to proseletize by the homosexual lobby. Here's one that is a legitamate story.



http://www.aim.org/media-monitor/homosexua...ent-in-schools/



There are more like it that I found on my blackberry this morning, but I haven't figured out how to link on that thing, but the information is out there and free for any who wish to find it.



To claim that homosexuals never try to recruit others to become homosexuals is like claiming that there are never clouds in the sky.



Everyone proseletizes others to join them in their point of view. Christians, muslims, buddists, homosexuals, Mac junkies, PC geeks, Coke drinkers, Pepsi drinkers (though why anyone would want to drink Pepsi, I have no idea). It just varies in intensity and overtness.



Getting back to my original question though, are you going to answer it, or are you going to continue to deflect?





First off I was not deflecting I was answering someones elses response to your post. Second in further response on that issue, one can not recruit someone to be gay as it is not a choice either you are gay or you are not no choice involved. Third to story you cite the teachers involved were fired great they should have been in full support that health programs should not be teaching how to have sex.



Now on your post, there is I guess a fundamental disagreement we have that is unresolvable. By definition being gay is abnormal as not the majority but a minority in the general population. I am also left handed this is abnormal also. I have high arches and wide feet 4E shoes this is abnormal, all pro basketball players are abnormal as the normal is not to be 7' tall. So yes gay is abnormal but then you go on to compare it with a defect and that is our fundamental disagreement, I I see no defect in being gay. Therefore why should limited health care dollars and time be allocated to correct something that is not a defect. Also I am to some degree stereotyping but a large portion of those in creative artistic endeavors, arts, acting, singing, etc are gay is the same conditions which lead to homosexuality related to creativity would we be losing the creativity of the likes of Michaelangelo and Davinci if we eliminated homosexuals I don't have an answer for that neither do you is it worth the risk, I say no. My being left handed is a far greater handicap in my life than is my homosexuality should I call for the elimination of left handedness prolly not would lessen the thrill of baseball if there were no left handers. Do I think that those with Downs syndrome be aborted or cerebral palsy personally no , I have a niece with cerebral palsy. Do I support a change in the constitutional decision to allow abortion , no , I stand by a womans right to chose. My Body My Choice is as important to me a transgender woman as it is to any woman . I put my money where my mouth is when I adopted two special needs children one with cleft lip and pallet and one with a risk of failure to thrive.

supervenusfreak
6/22/08
10:07 PM
QUOTE(Rural Conservative @ Jun 22 2008, 02:33 PM) [snapback]403917[/snapback]

You got me on those two links, however, there are true stories out there of deliberate attempts to proseletize by the homosexual lobby. Here's one that is a legitamate story.



http://www.aim.org/media-monitor/homosexua...ent-in-schools/



There are more like it that I found on my blackberry this morning, but I haven't figured out how to link on that thing, but the information is out there and free for any who wish to find it.



To claim that homosexuals never try to recruit others to become homosexuals is like claiming that there are never clouds in the sky.



Everyone proseletizes others to join them in their point of view. Christians, muslims, buddists, homosexuals, Mac junkies, PC geeks, Coke drinkers, Pepsi drinkers (though why anyone would want to drink Pepsi, I have no idea). It just varies in intensity and overtness.



Getting back to my original question though, are you going to answer it, or are you going to continue to deflect?







RC, you tried to prove your point by linking to two comedy sites and then come back only to link to a story from Accuracy In Media?

laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif

I could use my google fu to link to other stories about how heterosexuals recruit in high schools, or how right wing religious zealots wreck lives, but it would be a big waste of time. You would still be homophobic. You would still be self righteous. You would still want every gay person to live life as a lie.

The only real recruitment drive is for people to live their lives openly and honestly, with love and respect for their partners.

There are a lot of wonderful gay men and lesbians in this world. It is an absolute shame that you will never truly be able to know them and appreciate what they have to offer.
dragonrider
6/22/08
10:48 PM
Yeah I noticed also it was a link from inaccuracy in media also, why not just link to Repent America or Life and Liberty I am sure they have some wonderful support that position.
segjt
6/22/08
11:37 PM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 22 2008, 04:04 PM) [snapback]403936[/snapback]
First off I was not deflecting I was answering someones elses response to your post. Second in further response on that issue, one can not recruit someone to be gay as it is not a choice either you are gay or you are not no choice involved. Third to story you cite the teachers involved were fired great they should have been in full support that health programs should not be teaching how to have sex.



Now on your post, there is I guess a fundamental disagreement we have that is unresolvable. By definition being gay is abnormal as not the majority but a minority in the general population. I am also left handed this is abnormal also. I have high arches and wide feet 4E shoes this is abnormal, all pro basketball players are abnormal as the normal is not to be 7' tall. So yes gay is abnormal but then you go on to compare it with a defect and that is our fundamental disagreement, I I see no defect in being gay. Therefore why should limited health care dollars and time be allocated to correct something that is not a defect. Also I am to some degree stereotyping but a large portion of those in creative artistic endeavors, arts, acting, singing, etc are gay is the same conditions which lead to homosexuality related to creativity would we be losing the creativity of the likes of Michaelangelo and Davinci if we eliminated homosexuals I don't have an answer for that neither do you is it worth the risk, I say no. My being left handed is a far greater handicap in my life than is my homosexuality should I call for the elimination of left handedness prolly not would lessen the thrill of baseball if there were no left handers. Do I think that those with Downs syndrome be aborted or cerebral palsy personally no , I have a niece with cerebral palsy. Do I support a change in the constitutional decision to allow abortion , no , I stand by a womans right to chose. My Body My Choice is as important to me a transgender woman as it is to any woman . I put my money where my mouth is when I adopted two special needs children one with cleft lip and pallet and one with a risk of failure to thrive.



Damn!! You had to have been high when you typed this post. ...lol

dragonrider
6/23/08
12:32 AM
QUOTE(segjt @ Jun 22 2008, 11:37 PM) [snapback]404013[/snapback]


Damn!! You had to have been high when you typed this post. ...lol

Do you ever have anything intelligent to add to the conversation?
segjt
6/23/08
4:36 AM
QUOTE(dragonrider @ Jun 23 2008, 12:32 AM) [snapback]404023[/snapback]
Do you ever have anything intelligent to add to the conversation?




if I want your opinion, I'll give it to you...

dragonrider
6/23/08
11:19 AM
QUOTE(segjt @ Jun 23 2008, 04:36 AM) [snapback]404025[/snapback]




if I want your opinion, I'll give it to you...
Stay up all night thinking that one up?
bigstew
6/23/08
5:49 PM
QUOTE
either you are gay or you are not no choice involved

Do you speak for all homosexuals?

QUOTE
My Body My Choice
OK, why don't we ask that little body about its choice?
Makita
6/23/08
7:23 PM
Stew,

No body speaks for everyone. They are only speaking for themselves. They are individuals and different then straight people. I can't change the way I am and neith